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Judging Others


Reasons why we Judge each other

We are lonely, The bonds you have based on judging others are superficial and are not likely to contain true substance 

We are seeking change; we want our lives to be different 

We are scared; we are intimidated by others

We are insecure; this is the main reason we judge, when we are not secure with ourselves 

What judgement does!

It hurts people and perpetrate stereotypes 

Puts negativity into the world 

Ways to stop doing this!

Monitor your thoughts 

Think before you speak 

We need to look for the positive things in people. Just as you want people to look for the positivity in you. Focus on your own life before you look at someone else’s.

Most important things!

Remember how it feels to be judged and judged wrong 

Remember that judging a person does not define who they are, it defines who you are.

Be kind and understanding of others!






 

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